A QUESTION TO ALL CHRISTIANS REGAURDING RELATIONSHIPS.?

when i was a kid i went to church and all of that stuff and then i went on a id say 10year hiatus a crazy one, basically im gonna break it down like this im a gangster but these gangster ways are starting to exhaust me i just want to chill out now. i realized this on the weekend when i picked up some girl from a club and brought her back to my place and broke all the commandmants in just a few hours. i think im getting older because now i just want me a girl that goes to church thats not so easy and crazy like the girls ive been with in the past. i remeber when i use to go all the girls in the churh were hidious. so i want to know is there any good looking girls that go to church and where are they at? i dont want to go to church for them because i never been there in years and the last thing i want to do is go there just for girls. like do i have to go in a bookstore or something? i just want to quit all this gang stuff and chill out with a nice looking christian girl. is this possible?A QUESTION TO ALL CHRISTIANS REGAURDING RELATIONSHIPS.?
Well Jon, I'll put it to you straight. Based on what you've said here, it sounds like you still have some growing up to do. It's good that you want to get out of the gang business, but I think you need to sit down and have a real heart to heart with God before you go seeking a church or a Christian girlfriend. Because, with the present condition of your heart, I have serious doubts that any real Christian girl, nice looking or not would want to have much to do with you. I know I wouldn't want either of my daughters near you... except for the purpose of trying to introduce your heart to God.
First you've got to become that for which you want to attract. You've got a long ways to go but no harm in taking that first step. Everyone has got to start somewhere, right? If you want good, you've got to be good. Nice? Got to be nice. Non gangsta? Got to be non gangsta.

Like attracts like. Start changing.A QUESTION TO ALL CHRISTIANS REGAURDING RELATIONSHIPS.?
wow... i can't even.....hm



1) All of them were ugly?

beauty is in the eyes of the beaholder

2) Do i find a good girl at church

no to be good you need to be good yourself

3) Is this possible

go back to school and get an education.
I think you have closed most of the doors that lead to that kind of life already. They have a saying, "You made your bed, now lie in it".A QUESTION TO ALL CHRISTIANS REGAURDING RELATIONSHIPS.?
there are some very pretty girls at church.. but the question is.. will the pretty girls at church be interested in a gangster type guy?
Yes

Go to Church Sunday and you may be pleasantly surprised.
would you rather be with a christian girl or with a girl that's not.

listen to your heart.



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With the lord antthing is possible.
yes im one of them but Im taken....she may not want you though be advised....my husband has to respect my beliefs....are you willing to do that?? please dont air all your personal stuff here....see dating and singles..
you shouldn't go to church just for girls. and who says a great girl has to be drop-dead gorgeous?
god will bring her when you are really ready
Of course its possible. But you have to take care of YOU first. You say that you don't wanna go back to church just for the good church girls and thats really good. The only thing you can do is stop SAYING that you wanna do it and just DO it. The people that you run with who are in gangs and stuff, you gotta break off your ties with them. Yeah it sucks but if living a Godly life is what you wanna do, then you need to choose better associates. Because everytime you think about doing something you shouldn't be doing, are you friends gonna tell you "Man, come on, your a religious person, you shouldn't be doing that stuff.."? No. So who's looking out for your relationship with God? If there's one thing I know, you cannot do it by yourself. You need other people who share your same interests to encourage you along the way.



Thats the first step. But you have to push yourself to go progress in religion. Keep going to your place of worship. Its better than running the streets. Eventually, you will find that girl you are looking for.
Well, in some ways you are asking a very simple question, in others it is more complex. You don't have to go to a church to find a Christian girl. You just need to look elsewhere. You are obviously not looking in the right places. However, church is not a bad place to start.



Churches really don't care if you haven't been there (or they shouldn't), what they care about is are you there now. In going to church, there are a lot more benefits to it than just meeting girls obviously; and it sounds like you could really use these benefits more than you can use a girl right now. I can't list them all because they are different for everybody. It will definitely begin some changes in yourself and help you on your own path to be the person you want to be. But you should go with an open mind. Plus, maybe the church you once went to isn't the church for you. Every church is different. Still, you seem to be missing something in life that goes deeper than a romantic relationship. So, I would suggest giving it a shot (and not just for 1 Sunday).



However, going to church doesn't make you a Christian. I know a lot of individuals that are Christians and don't go to church for one reason or another. If you find that it doesn't suit you after seriously trying it, that's okay; but it will help you more than you may think just to try it.



Plus, God is very forgiving. There is no way you could have broken all 10 commandments (as well as those in the New Testament) by sleeping with a girl, but I get your point. I don't think God really has restrictions on how one goes about sex for the most part, but how one procures it. Even then he's forgiving.



Something else that you can do is insist on getting to know someone for longer than a few hours, or even a few days first....or longer. Most girls in this world don't mind that, and if they do than they aren't what you are looking for. Insist on just spending time together getting to know each other. It may seem old fashioned, but girls like dates. We really get into that romance stuff. It can drive us crazy, even when it only builds with time. Believe me you won't regret trying this for a number of reasons I won't get into here. ;) But it is obvious that your heart and mind are ready for the next level of relationships in your life.



Now getting away from the gangster life is a different story. That is very hard to do; and I am certainly not in a position to tell you how to do it. It is my understanding that some people can never get away. Whereas, I have met people that have. So, there is hope, but I wish you luck with this. It would benefit you to walk away if you can. And remember it can be done. You just have to really look at yourself and change what you want from the inside out. I have only made some suggestions that might help.
Absolutely. You are a lot like Paul when he was named Saul. He persecuted the christians and took place in the stoning of Stephen. However, God had something more important for him and met him(Paul) on way to Tarsus.



All you must do is let God know that you are sorry for all you have done. That you are a sinner and have sinned in His eyes. Tell Him that you believe in Jesus Christ, His Son, who was born, beaten crucified, died, was buried and was resurrected from the dead. Then ask Him to take over your life, that you want to live for Him from now on.



Let me know when you have done this and I will be so pleased to call you my brother. The next thing to do is to find a good bible believing church to go to, confess your sins to someone there, tell them that you have accepted the Lord and you want to be baptized.
Anything and everything is possible. You must however be willing to increase your level of awareness ( your spiritual energy), this should be completed to some extent before you begin your search for a bride. "Like" spirits attract, if you resist change, you will continually attract females with a similar spiritual condition. Seek truth, awaken to the reality of freedom and liberation. This is not an opinion,it is an affirmable universal law of God. Check references. Blessings.
Church girls are UGLY. Your best bet is the Divorcees Moms the fill up the Church.



Goodluck